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In another blog post I compared your massage session to receiving a lap dance wherein you can't touch the dancer. We are not "dancing" on your lap, but you "get my drift." Feel free to express yourself. Moan if that is what comes, make faces when I'm not looking, cry, laugh; whatever emotional release or expression is triggered, feel free, just don't grab for me or any of your sexual parts that are obvious to me. Most of all BREATHE through the experience.
Don't be so afraid of receiving affection that you hold your breath the whole time, and don't be so "scandalous" that you begin attempting to "share" with your therapist. It's not that kind o' show when you are in session with me, so let's keep things dignified. position, naked with only a sheet separating you from a virtual stranger who is touching you. However, you came in for massage therapy, and that is what is required to buying phone number lists accomplish this purpose, so relax. We are professionals here. Tell us if/when we do anything that makes you feel "uncomfortableincluding arousal, in the case of those who feel that the therapist deliberately touched something they shouldn't have.

Many times your therapist's hand may slip. After all, we are working with oils on your body. Accidents are possible when things are slippery. Also keep in mind your own frame of mind, personal issues, which your therapist doesn't know about, and especially your parasympathetic brain and the involuntary responses. We can and will fix a problem in the room, right away, and if it's a "slippage", even if neither of you acknowledge it verbally at the time, the therapist may have made a mental note to be careful and/or apologize.
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